Wednesday, August 5, 2009

Fun Proposal Ideas

Here are a couple of really fun marriage proposal ideas to inspire your own wedding proposal.

Treasure Proposal

If you are into snorkeling, or scuba diving, or perhaps have never even tried it but expect you could relatively easily convince your special someone that it is a good idea to try it together for the first time, then you will likely want to explore this very fun marriage proposal idea. Imagine the two of you snorkeling along and you just happen to see something shiny in the water below. You can either hold the ring conveniently in your palm and act as though you have just discovered it and picked it up from the sand or reef below, or you can just surface and tell her you saw something and will be right back after you dive down to “take a closer look”. You both take a look at the shiny object you have discovered below, this treasure from the depths of the sea, and surprisingly enough it looks like an engagement ring! Wow, imagine that! What to do now? Perhaps you should slip it on her ring finger and see if it fits. Oh, what a coincidence! This is now where your proposal begins. You may want to wait until you get back to the beach or onto your boat to show her what you “found” as it certainly makes it easier to avoid dropping the ring into the water by accident. It also likely makes it easier to handle all of the proposal presentation much more easily. At some point you will obviously want to tell her that you actually brought the ring with you and planned the whole thing. Otherwise she may be concerned about finding just whom the ring belonged to prior to it being found by you and returning it to this non-existent person.

Secret Admirer Delivery

Here is a really fun surprising way to propose to her in a way that she will likely never expect and also likely never forget. The two of you are cuddling up for a nice romantic evening together when there is a ring of the doorbell or a knock at the door. She or you both go to the door to see who it is. Wow, it’s a delivery person with a bouquet and a small package addressed to your girlfriend from a “Secret Admirer”! The type of delivery person you choose gives you lots of room for creativity. A singing delivery person or a costumed delivery person, or even a singing costumed delivery person could present her the present from this supposed “Secret Admirer”. Obviously you are the person who sent the package, but you act surprised and say something like “I had no idea you had a secret admirer!”. Say it in more of a mildly teasing way rather than in an accusing manner and she will be in much more of a pleasant mood for your proposal. Bring the package inside and open it together to see just what this admirer as sent her. Have a revealing surprise inside the ring box so that when she opens it and sees the ring she sees something like a photo of you and her cut into the shape of a heart on the inside of the lid. She sees it and realizes what is happening and you get down on one knee. The rest is pure magic.

Tuesday, July 7, 2009

Honeymoon Tips for the Groom

Are you planning a spectacular honeymoon adventure for you and your new bride? Do you want to make sure you both have the most pleasurable experience possible? Are you a little nervous about making sure the first nights together as a married couple are as fantastically spectacular as they truly deserve to be? How about a truly wonderful experience which incorporates your most intimate pleasures? What more proper way to spend your first romantic nights as a newlywed couple together can there possibly be? How better to properly celebrate your love than with a completely thorough and sensually deep expression of your marriage vows in the most wonderful ways possible? Here are some tips to enhance your first nights together and bring your marriage vows to a whole new level by showing the depth of your love to your new life partner.

Every situation is different and every woman has unique desires and sensual locations which are especially amazing for her in particular. There are, though, obvious similarities in what most women enjoy and you are hopefully already aware of them, but many men still seem unaware of the basics of pleasuring a woman properly.

1. Take it slow. Unless it is a wild moment and she wants to fulfill a fantasy of her own or has agreed to aid you in fulfilling your own, start slowly and gently. Slowly and gently massage your way toward copulation as though her body is a network of pleasure points which you must properly activate with your loving touch and kisses for her to fully open and draw you inside with the utmost desire she has ever expressed. Make your way slowly and playfully toward her blossoming center like you are a butterfly gathering pollen along her thighs and inducing her to open like a flower to the sun after a rainy day.

2. Speaking in tongues. Your new bride’s favorite part of your sensual anatomy is likely a different organ than you may actually think. Your tongue is your bride’s best friend in the bedroom. You may or may not be surprised to find out that a woman’s most sensitive pleasurable area is her clitoris. This small area has more nerve endings than any other external organ of the human body. The clitoris is sometimes shy and may hide until you arouse it properly by gently and smoothly exciting the area around it. Slowly and then progressively more rapidly massage with the moist tip of her favorite part of your sensual anatomy Alternate between this and smooth broad labial care and she will likely be grasping your head for dear life.

3. Rhythm. A woman’s orgasm is very dependent on rhythm. If things are going good and you can feel that she is getting to the verge of an orgasm, do not change the rhythm or the position! Women like a consistent man. Unless you are intending to tease her just a little and then return to the same spot and rhythm, do not stray prior to her orgasm being complete.

Hopefully these tips will bring your wife’s pleasure to another level completely. You may be surprised to find that she has actually opened in a new way you may had not even realized was possible before.

Tuesday, June 2, 2009

Are Two Lovers Better Than One?

Monogamy is a widely accepted and thoroughly expected way for civilized people to behave within a relationship. In some cultures it is completely acceptable to have relationships with multiple partners. Even in these freer relationships there are still some things that constitute cheating or betrayal. The only relationships that don’t seem to have these boundaries are the ones for which an agreement exists between all of the people in involved that it is ok to act on any impulse to be intimate with other people. But even in these relationships there are certain rules of disclosure and other rules that they have to abide by.

Those people, who are happy and satisfied in relationships that allow for them to be intimate with someone other than their partner, seem to prove that it is not always a hurtful situation. They are saying that having more than one lover at a time does not always translate into cheating. Obviously these relationships exist because the people in them feel that the benefits of them far outweigh any jealousy they might experience or social conditioning they may have learned.

Cheaters are people who will not freely admit to wanting this type of life style, but seek it out secretly. A lot of cheaters say that they are only doing what everybody else is doing or wants to do. People who have multiple partners, openly or in secret, all agree that their lovers complement each other, in other words, what one of the lovers is lacking, the other provides.
Obviously having two people who are totally into you can be pretty appealing for these and so many other reasons:

Having two people to call your own would mean that there would not be a moment when you wanted or needed to talk to somebody and had to wait because your partner was busy.
If you were fighting with one of the people you are seeing and were too mad to have sex with them, you wouldn’t have to go without sex completely.

If you happen to be one those people who require a lot of attention and affection to thrive, you could be getting half of what you need from both people and not seem needy at all.

Chances are you will not find somebody who is into everything you are, but if you date two people, you can basically do what you like to do all the time and still give both people their own free time to do what they like.

Gifts are great, now imagine two sets of birthday, Christmas, Valentine’s day, and just because, gifts.

If all of this seems too good to be true that’s because it is. With the lying, cheating, and the pure exhaustion of trying to lead a double life, this maybe one of those things are better left in our fantasies.

Tuesday, May 19, 2009

Being In Love With A Bitch

Chances are you knew the person you are in love with was a bitch within minutes after meeting her. It is not like a bitch to try and hide it and even if she does try you still know. The fact that you got past the initial small talk and landed a date with her says a lot about you. First it says you are a sucker for a challenge. Usually at first the plan is to conquer her and to exorcise that demon right out of her. Even though her bitchiness is attractive to you in a sexy kind of way, it also feels threatening and a little scary sometimes.

The second thing it says about you is that you enjoy a woman with a strong personality who is not afraid to speak her mind and make her desires known. You never know if what you are thinking of doing or saying will make her happy but you know you will find out and that keeps things fresh and unexpected. Eventually you learn how to make a woman with this personality happy and it feels like quite an accomplishment when you do. You quickly find that one of the surest ways to make her shine is to give her exactly what she wants. It is especially rewarding when what she wants is the same thing you want because when you want different things, her scary side comes out. When this happens, don’t bother calling her a bitch because she will like it.

The lack of compromise may make it seem like you are in love alone, but be assured, bitches have feelings too. When you are on the good side of those feelings you will be met with unmatched loyalty, unbridled passion, and all the excitement you can handle. When you find yourself on the path to the stormy side of this woman you better run for cover.

In all fairness just because a woman is a bitch does not automatically mean that she is incapable of having a loving and satisfying relationship. The word bitch is not associated with many positives, if any, but it is usually a trait that can be tempered with a personality that is equipped to handle it.

Only time will tell if the woman you are in love with is a good bitch or a bad bitch. A good bitch will use her outspoken ways to rally to your defense when you are being attacked. She will not stay quiet in the presence of unfairness. She will put the man who hits on her in front of you in his place without blinking an eyelash. And she will expect you to strive to give her everything she needs and wants, but will still love you when you tried, but can’t. A bad bitch is not worth the time it takes to try to change her. She will be impossible to please, and will rarely ever care if you are happy or satisfied. She will take what she wants at the expense of others, and before you know if you really do love her, she will be gone.