Tuesday, May 19, 2009

Being In Love With A Bitch

Chances are you knew the person you are in love with was a bitch within minutes after meeting her. It is not like a bitch to try and hide it and even if she does try you still know. The fact that you got past the initial small talk and landed a date with her says a lot about you. First it says you are a sucker for a challenge. Usually at first the plan is to conquer her and to exorcise that demon right out of her. Even though her bitchiness is attractive to you in a sexy kind of way, it also feels threatening and a little scary sometimes.

The second thing it says about you is that you enjoy a woman with a strong personality who is not afraid to speak her mind and make her desires known. You never know if what you are thinking of doing or saying will make her happy but you know you will find out and that keeps things fresh and unexpected. Eventually you learn how to make a woman with this personality happy and it feels like quite an accomplishment when you do. You quickly find that one of the surest ways to make her shine is to give her exactly what she wants. It is especially rewarding when what she wants is the same thing you want because when you want different things, her scary side comes out. When this happens, don’t bother calling her a bitch because she will like it.

The lack of compromise may make it seem like you are in love alone, but be assured, bitches have feelings too. When you are on the good side of those feelings you will be met with unmatched loyalty, unbridled passion, and all the excitement you can handle. When you find yourself on the path to the stormy side of this woman you better run for cover.

In all fairness just because a woman is a bitch does not automatically mean that she is incapable of having a loving and satisfying relationship. The word bitch is not associated with many positives, if any, but it is usually a trait that can be tempered with a personality that is equipped to handle it.

Only time will tell if the woman you are in love with is a good bitch or a bad bitch. A good bitch will use her outspoken ways to rally to your defense when you are being attacked. She will not stay quiet in the presence of unfairness. She will put the man who hits on her in front of you in his place without blinking an eyelash. And she will expect you to strive to give her everything she needs and wants, but will still love you when you tried, but can’t. A bad bitch is not worth the time it takes to try to change her. She will be impossible to please, and will rarely ever care if you are happy or satisfied. She will take what she wants at the expense of others, and before you know if you really do love her, she will be gone.